Luv2bjewish– you’re first post is very vague about rules you mean, the only things you mention it is opening the door for her and going to manhattan.
Really? Is the world hung up on that?!? Are we really sooooo busy with that?!? I don’t think so. Maybe a single story here and there and yes on a date a girl mentioned to me about me not opening he door in a friendly way to which I responded that I thought it was strange to do to which she replied it doesn’t matter I like you anyway. These things don’t really make a difference if you guys like each other. (Btw I open the door for my wife all the time)
So go on a and date, be a mensch or a female mensch and stop worrying of we care abut silliness. Because it doesn’t matter what the world thinks it matters what you and your future date/spouse feel about each other.
A silly little nuance won’t stop a couple from liking each other.