ifti99 -Your two points are totally separate, but you seem to Mish them together.
1. The point about Kollel I somewhat agree with you. This happens here in the US too. All the Frum girls only want Kollel. At one time there was a fight of Shmad/assimilation here amongst the Frumme. So this was the reason of Kollel being pushed. It’s Not Halachicly wrong for anybody to sit in Kollel, but perhaps the tide has changed and the girls shouldn’t demand Kollel, nor the boys anymore.
2. EY has a separate prob and that’s going to the army. This is a prob whether the person works or learns. Lots of Gedolim hold that it’s Not okay to go to the IDF if you’re a Frum Yid.
This is the main problem with the draft.
I hope this clears some things up for you.