I’d like to point out that for actual Halacha one should ask one’s Rov, not rely on anonymous bloggers who may or may not have any idea what they’re talking about.
Josh31:
“Showing up at the Chupah without any skills to support your wife financially is like showing up at the start of Succos without a Sukkah or Arba Minim.”
If my wife doesn’t mind, why should you?