Reply To: Tzedaka collectors in shul who stand by you till you give them

Thank the Ribbono Shel Olam (and have extra Kavanna during Bentching) that you are not so desperate for money that you need to be Mitztarech L’Briyos, let alone embarass others into giving you, which (IIRC, I would have to look up the source and ask for help here) has the Din of Gezel.