To Midwood Yid
Before you go out on that all important date, go the kever of one of the many holy Tzaddikim buried in The New York area and be mispallel that you should be zocheh to a life of health and happiness and that she should be the right zivig that was ordained for you 40 days prior to your birth.
If she says yes respect her the rest of your days on this earth as you do now.