Perhaps at most you have heard of this in a couple of horror stories which may or may not have been true, but I do not believe you are aware of this in any widespread way.
If it is beneath “Kavod HaToyrah” to cook for one’s family (or one’s self), it is certainly beneath them to take out the garbage.
Boruch Hashem I don’t live in Lakewood, so I am unaware of specific examples. I am Modah that today, mistama the live-in Hungarian maid of the Kollel guy takes out the garbage, not the husband and certainly not the pampered wife.
As an FYI, I have heard from the family (and it is on the OU website) that it was Rav Gifter.