smartcookie, you wrote, “Its just that a broken engagement is much worse than a divorce since it involves much more humiliation.
(Please think twice before breaking a shidduch. Maybe it does pay to get married and try it out) please don’t attack me, I don’t know anyones situation but if possible, it is better to get married and divorce than break a shidduch”
In what way is a broken engagement more humiliating than a marriage? Keep in mind, too, that someone with doubts who decides to “get married and try it out” may end up divorcing after having a child.