Original poster,above: DO NOT PUT A STUMBLING BLOCK BEFORE THE BLIND – from the Torah – and if one were to say about what is there that it was only a joke, they may have a real problem,has v shalom.
It is better to sit quietly twiddling one’s thumbs than to engage in some of these so called “threads” – yes we want to give some of our friends koach when they might be feeling lonely – but this is not the way.