Ubi:
I didn’t say i won’t discuss it, i simply said i wasn’t ready to discuss it yet.
It seems to me like we are going in circles. You insisting with focusing on the issue of girls having difficulty getting dates, and me focusing on the observation that there are far more unmarried girls around than unmarried guys.
Until you are ready to focus solely on that issue of that observation, i am not ready to discuss why that is so, how it came about and why it is a relatively new situation.
Your are welcome to focus you efforts on making a more efficient game of musical chairs, but you have not addressed DY’s correct point, that so long as there aren’t enough guy to go around, what will it help to spread out the dates more evenly….
(at one point you suggested that DY is not correct becasuse the numbers of guys aren’t stagnant, but i assume you realized the fallacy of that statement, because obviously the number of girls aren’t stagnant either.)
so for starters: i’ll wait for your response to
a. the observation (other than a simply yeah- so what difference does it make). Because it should be obvious that it makes all the difference in the world.
b. your response to DY’s point, how would a more efficient system help if there aren’t enough guys to go around.
unless you only goal is to simply keep the music going and spread the dates more evenly. In which case it would be helpful if you could explain what the benefit to that would be unless that is your total goal.
If that is the case we have nothing to further discuss as we are dealing with (what in your mind) are totally unrelated issues and i wish the best of success in your attempts to spread the dates more evenly.
(as for your example of 10,000 and 10,100 i might be intrigued by why those 100 girls didn’t date at all, but i would realize that adjusting the system to get them some dates or equal number of dates wouldn’t result in a change of the end result of 100 still being single.
You see my goal is NOT to get all girls equal number of dates, my goal is to get all girls married.
you will respond that dating is the best segula to getting married, and i will of course agree, BUT 100 guys dating 110 girls is the best segula to ensure that 10 of those girls won’t get married.
And spreading the dates out evenly among the 110 girls will do nothing to change that net result of 10 girls not being married.
Is there some hole in that “theory”???