DY both. Plus It will get people married quicker
You’ve gone off the deep end if you think allowing girls to pick first, and ceasing advertising the shidduch disparity, will increase the number of boys available. Almost equally ludicrous is the notion that not advertising the crisis wil get people married quicker.
Saying that allowing the girls to say yes first would be more efficient and people would get married quicker could theoretically be true based on the quirks of human nature, but I don’t really see it.