I have depression and I have accomplished a ton despite it. You can also do the same, I know its easier for me to tell you not to be anxious when I myself an anxious about the same thing, but this thread has been an eye opener that other people can assist people with depression towards more rational thinking through loving guidance. I am not saying you are not being rational, but being anxious as part of depression can lead others to perceive these threads as irrational fears.
Bottom line, the key thing you need to look for in someone is a person who will not dismiss these fears, but will rather assist you in overcoming these fears that the rest of the world who has never suffered from depression will not understand.