SlichosGenendel:
I think you got it wrong. I am “most of the CR”. Actually I was once.
Nobody, no one at all, has the right to knowingly hurt another’s feelings. ?? ?????? ????? ??? ????? ?????. You’re dealing with serious stuff. And one more point. You may never know another’s matzav, circumstances, environs, emotional makeup etc. To cause another to cry out (real or figuratively), to be the cause for another’s additional unneeded anguish, is something you don’t want.
If a point has to be sent, it must be in the most gentlest (is that a word?) of tones. The sweetest way possible.
And I know what I’m writing about. BTDT.
Thanks for reading!!