Why can’t it just be a counter to the same thing that girls learn all the time in high school and sem, all about how we need to always support our husbands and make them happy? Can’t it just be that both sides of the partnership should try to make each other happy and be good to each other?
Just in an ordinary, day-to-day sort of manner, even- like, compliment your wife on the soup even though it needed more salt (are you listening, WIY?) or try to be available for your husband when he needs you.
No need for fancy metaphysical concepts- just try to be nice.