Reply To: How do you understand "Vesimach es ishto?"

Think first

I want to say differently. Most often after marriage people realize that their spouse is different than what they first thought. We may feel that “this isn’t who I married” so the Torah says regardless of how you the husband may feel about your choice, since you went ahead and took her and decided you want her, now it’s your job to make her happy and not chas veshalom give off negative vibes that will make her feel like you wish she were different and that she isn’t good enough.