On aish.com there’s someone who calls himself David and tells of his struggles with homosexuality. His first article is called “The Straight Path Home” and his second article “Straight Path: David Responds” is a response to the many comments he received. I recommend both articles, to get a glimpse of someone who has been there and made a complete turn around.
Here are just a few lines of what he writes:
Yes, there are many causes of homosexuality. My path is one that is common ? the triadic family and detachment from father, the missed opportunity to bond with other men. Other formative experiences common to those with same-sex attractions include physical or sexual abuse, and peer rejection. Others are responding to what they perceived as threatening relationships with mother or other women.