Dave, A young friend of mine lost her baby girl just a few days after she was born. She suffers the pain that Naomi writes about. She has not been able to cope and I feel it in everything Naomi said. She does have another child and yet she has not reached that level yet that she can receive enough from him to cover her loss.
Our losses as yidden are huge and there are many who still wish to destroy us and divide us. we must always keep that in mind when the yetzer horah laughs at us as it works so easily to make us divide and destroy each other from within. That was our downfall in the past. And that is why the Yetzer Horah laughs at us, because we have yet to learn our lessons.