Reply To: Possible solution to the shidduch crisis

First of all as a reminder to myself I am just saying that HAshem is the one who makes our shidduchim and no matter how hard I or anyone else tries to change the system, if we have bitachon that it’s all in HAshems hands we won’t have to worry.

Daasyochid – I just don’t think it’s that simple that if there were more boys in the world every girl would be matched up with a boy. I think that boys just have the upper hand and therefore are able to choose the “top”- however one defines top ,we all have different images in our mind- girls so the girls that don’t have ALL the redeeming qualities don’t get dates.

My suggestion is to see what the underlying problem of this crisis is because without changing the system in some way we are just speculating.