“jewishfeminist02: I don’t want to sound mean, but in fairness do you really think he wanted advice from a girl about his chavrusa question and do you not see how it is inappropriate for you to be answering a question about a boy’s chavrusa? It’s like a boy giving a girl advice on what to give another girl for a bridal shower. Not only that, but what on earth would it matter what masechta he is learning? You didn’t even answer his question.”
When I saw the thread, I asked my husband if he had any suggestions. He told me he needed the answers to these questions before he could offer any advice. He said that the reason it matters which mesechta is that some are harder than others, and therefore for those masechtas it’s more important to have a good chavrusa. I understand why you were confused, but next time please try to be dan l’kaf zechus. And by the way, I and other women have had chavrusas too. Do you think it’s equally “inappropriate” for writersoul to be answering? I’m sure the OP would be grateful for advice from any source, if it were useful.