Boys and girls learn differently and their relationships in terms of how they learn differ. “
So what? What difference does it make if I take a taxi, drive myself, go by train, or walk, if I arrive at the same destination? The fact that girls and boys learn MIGHT have different learning styles (and I am not certain that it is a disadvantage for the girls, as I inferred from your implication), does not mean that the end result, the learning of Torah has not been attained.
If I were you, I would take the female perspective a bit more STRONGLY into account, because we have binah yesirah, and perhaps could even give the OP better advice than a male. Males tend to see issues as “black or white,” but women tend to see more of the subtleties and make assessments based on those shades of gray.