Reply To: Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim?

You can tell from answers if she’s gorgeous or “pretty” in a “nice” manner. I’m not expecting people to lie. Nor do I ask a reference if a girl is good looking. I do ask if she dresses well, though. I assume that someone who is suggesting a girl for me, knows me well enough to suggest a girl that is within the realm of what I consider attractive.