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OI: It’s hard for me, personally, to judge short guys when I’m 5’2″ :). I’m just pointing out that girls do have feelings just like guys do, and point is absolutely taken that guys have feelings like that. Happens to be my family was just talking about this and I’m actually the one who got the short end of the gene stick- both of my parents are much taller than I am (NOT a common occurrence) and as I mentioned, my sister is 5’8″.
Point is, I was NOT trying to be mean. I was just pointing out (as I’m sure, upon reflection, that you knew already, so it was probably redundant) what girls think on the matter. And yes, jfem02, there are definitely girls who marry shorter guys (usually tall girls, like one woman I know who said, “What was I supposed to do? Marry someone taller than me and have my kids be giants?” Really tongue in cheek, but point taken), but not that many, which means that you and your future kallah are going to be absolutely made for each other :). I hope I don’t seem mean or snarky.