The legal benefits of legitimately married individuals are protected by extending to these perverts the benefits of married couples as well.
Legitimately married couples are a minority in the United States and eventually we would lose whatever opportunities are currently available to us. This way we have a much larger population who want to preserve government benefits which help our community.
Yiden generally benefit from “piggybacking” off the laws that are meant to protect other Americans, as most of the population could care less about Anti Semitism.
Also our yeshivas and families benefit from regulations meant for others as even our own, liberal Jews who make up the majority of the USA Jewish population, are the biggest advocates of church-state separation and have spent many $millions trying to repeal government rules which benefit our community and fight against vouchers for religious schools.
There is no way that we will stop them, so let’s be cordial so when we are in need; i.e., Israel, Rubashkin, etc., there is a better chance that they will of help.