Akuperma, get busy with the American law at which you are an expert, not with Halochah where you are not. Those Ba’alos teshuvah are made to look for a get only if possible as an extra chumrah. Btw, you attitude towards the Jewish people is nauseating.
What_is_in…, let me explain to you. Mishkav zochur is a chiyuv misa, yehareg ve’lo’yaavor and kares (for a Yid) and it’s assur even for a Ben Noach. Plus Maharal writes that no other aveirah attaches a person to the Sotan as much as gilui arayos. Cheating in business or treif are by far much less.