jfem02, you would like to tell us that you are a Jewish feminist. I have a strong suspicion you really are Jewish; however, I think you’re not a genuine, bona fide feminist. An authentic feminist would never dream of spending that much time in the kitchen just to please a male (in this case a husband). But you should be proud of yourself. You sound like a wonderful Jewish wife!
And don’t feel bad. I don’t play golf very well either.