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July 26, 2013 11:28 pm at 11:28 pm
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oomis
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Oomis: Please. Most frum girls I know and have known would be much more embarrassed if the crowd of yeshiva guys did turn and look down at them lying on the floor and offer to help them up. “
Popa, we obviously know very different frum girls. Of course, they might be embarrassed – at FALLING down in front of others and being unable to stand, but they would welcome the assistance of ANYONE male or female, and the physical contact is very brief and for a tachlis. At the very least, the boys should have gone for help, and they could have ASKED her if she needed or wanted help. That would have shown they were not bulvanim.