Anonymous1000, you are mamash making things up out of thin air.
1) Nowhere is the term “ultra Orthodox” mentioned in the original post (or the subsequent follow-up post). For all we know, the yeshiva bachurim could have been Gush boys.
2) Nowhere is any sort of conclusion drawn about any group of people except for the particular group of yeshiva bachurim who were literally involved in the incident itself.
3) Nothing was mentioned about the friend herself except to say that she told her the story.
4) Nowhere did she say that one should not send one’s daughter to Israel because of this.
5) Nowhere did the OP mention her friend’s affiliation with a “group” or the level of observance of shomer negiah in her social circle.
Look at the facts before you make assumptions about people.