I remember a certain poster who tried to convince me that I was in violation of “Lo Yilbash” because I like to cook. Apparently he held that cooking was a woman’s job and that if I cooked a meal for my wife on anything other than an ad-hoc basis, I was in violation.
But then again, this was the same poster who tried to convince me that I needed to get divorced because my marriage lacked the “kashrus” of going through a shadchan.
The Wolf