The Goq- I don’t think asking which school she’s going to is insensitive if they are not aware of her situation. For most people, that’s an ordinary question to ask. I have a family member that’s in the same situation right now. Whenever anyone asks me about it, I just answer that we’re still deciding. I may feel hurt every time I think about the situation, but it’s not the person that’s hurting me. It’s the situation.
