Bingo! I have such a hard forgiving people who have not only hurt but damaged my children. And like someone mentioned, it is very hard to forgive people who will not admit they were wrong (or abusive), have no intentions of changing and are still hurting others.
I am trying to figure out just what it is that I can’t let go of so that maybe I can work on it. If it is just the pure injustice of it all, than perhaps that is a bitachon issue. I know I cannot stand watching them continue destroying young children while everyone hides their heads in the sand.