It turns me off when people decide that Jews in these types of non-abuse situations are guilty.
I hate to shock you, but I was, at one time, accused of horrific and absurd things that did not have even a SHRED of truth to them. And what do you know?? The further away people lived, and the less they knew, the more SURE they were that the rumors were true. I think that judging others harshly – with “pseudo-facts” only – reflects poorly on the decisor.