Perhaps you meant well, but maybe your friend didn’t take it that way or maybe it didn’t come out that way
She didn’t have to take up the offers if she didn’t like it. AND she asked for favors from us as well.
The world is full of well meaning people who end up doing a lot of NOT nice things
If babysitting her child and going out to resturaunts with her on our tab means “doing a lot of not nice things” then you have a point.