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My nephew married the wonderful girl his best friend dated for several weeks and realized was not for HIM but perfect for my nephew. She was, and is, and it is a wonderful thing. I guarantee you know this boy’s personality much better than any shadchan, at this point, and can tell your friend honestly that although you liked him very much, certainly enough to want to see him with your friend, the chemistry wasn’t there for you. We might meet many people in life whom we would like very much, but not want to MARRY them! It could be even a small thing, like he is outdoorsy, and you prefer to sit in and read. Some perfectly lovely people are just better-suited to other people than to each other.