i agree with sanity. humans are created with a need for relationships. something major must have happened to this girl. if shopping is too hurt to call her, then shoppings friend should. please do this, your friend must be in so much pain! please call her, or just show up at her doorstep if you think she wont answer the phone. my friend did this to me when i was in pain and i am so grateful to her. i wouldnt be surprised if you found this girl cutting. please believe me, this girl has gone through something painful in her life. so, when you meet this person, be open with her. tell her you care, you feel her pain, you want to help her. tell her she is in your thoughts and prayers. if she opens up to you, just listen to her. let her cry on your shoulder and just be supportive. i know this sounds extreme, but i am 99% sure this girl is being abused. she needs help and Hashem wants you to be the shaliach to help her. i want to say more, but i gtg. good luck!
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