Reply To: What is forgiving?

Im Shoppong’s friend. I know this is not normal behaivor but it is for this girl. She is ussually very blunt and feelingness in whatever she says. She says how she feels when she feels it. Lasy year she cried before the 3 day trip cuz no one asked to share a room with her, we all kept putting her where there was space (we kept switching the rooms around) and I told her I loved her and wanted to be with her, but she deneid it and went home early before anyone could say a word more. The next day she acted normal, that topic was taboo from then on.

I know my former class, when she is with girls she is with the extreme chareidi girls, I have no idea where she would get the idea of cutting, drinking or anything else like that. B”H these girls are very naive and are in their own bubble, I would be surprised if she knew anything about such things. When other girls found out none were surprised she would do it, we all know that is the way she usually talks…just a little shocked.

I asked one of my close friends to speak to her about it (whom now sits next to her) but I havent gotten an answer…….

Im sure it must be a lack of social skills, denial, and personality problems. She has ALWAYS from 1st grade been alone, hard to develop social skills that way……

Shopping613 says she called twice but no answer and she left a message with her heart’s words……saying that she firgives her for everything, absolutely everything and practically cried. She is no longer angry and she said she hopes the girl will call back or send a message telling her that she forgives her for anything done…..

As for me…..I don’t know what this girl’s problem is, maybe she is adopting my close friend who is lonely since her best friend moved away last week…..I dont know, I can only daven