LAB: But you don’t need to let them name you. That’s what I was saying- if the word they made for you doesn’t mean what you want it to mean, just use a different word.
I wouldn’t call myself a homophobe. Make of that what you will.
Don’t let them decide what you are. Invent a better word. Because since the meaning of language is in the eye of the beholder, you will be misunderstood, unless you don’t care.