Onit: I wish you were speaking on behalf of everyone. Unfortunately, unconditional love is a bit hard to come by in these insular frum communities.
Mypureneshama- I must have read your post a dozen times by now. It is so well articulated, and so powerful and true. I could go into a whole tirade about this too…but my only wish is that someone make a worldwide movement about this issue. However, realistically it would never pick up anywhere but in my dreams 🙁