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nossond
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First a person has to be a mentch. Baal Teshuvas tend to see things in black and white, but that isnt the way it really is. Somethings are no-nos but can still be thrown at you in a twist of fate, and Hashem wants you do deal with it.

Is it a no-no to marry a goy?? You bet it is. But it was still a twist of fate in Esther Hamalkas life to deal with it.

It is obnoxious to tell someone you are no longer their friend because you are now more religious. Ouch!

Now you have to be a mentch and deal with it. If she still wants to be your friend and respect your choices, then you should be her friend.