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WIY do you even care why he “deserted” ? perhaps his commanding officer was very cruel to him and made him feel worthless maybe his fellow soldiers berated him and hurt him physically and emotionally, perhaps he was put on kp duty for weeks on end with no appreciation or gratitude while other soldiers ate and enjoyed the fruits of his labor. perhaps the officers who would visit the barracks a couple times a year would treat him like a servant and expect him to serve them and watch their children while they sat at the officers table and chatted for hours being treated like kings, i dont know his reasons but you cant judge a man unless you have walked in his shoes.