I’d also say that the fact that you’re living in Israel, serving to defend the land and the people of Israel, and are still probably living somewhat Jewishly, as Israeli society inherently follows Jewish time and norms, attests that you’re not entirely a lost soul. Your parents should still be proud of you. I’m certainly proud of any young person who volunteers to enlist in the IDF, but I’d also say that Zionism and living in Israel only is worth anything if it’s accompanied by spiritual elevation, or aliyah, as well. And for Jews, keeping the Torah and its mitzvot is the only means of experiencing such elevation.
