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writersoul
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nossond: Sorry, but rape victims, then and now, don’t decide to marry their rapists for their warm and fuzzy personalities. Bushah, etc can have a lot more to do with it. What you say sounds like victim blaming- like they “asked for it.” The whole point of the story of Amnon and Tamar was that he shamed and harmed her to the extent that Avshalom killed Amnon in revenge.