fkelly ever heard of
Ain Hakodosh boruch hu ba betrunia im bryosov
that’s not feel good that is a fact
Everyone deep down knows very well before he does something assur he feels he has the power to go either way. Some people make good choices some do not hashem begs us ubocharta bachaim please choose life.
Who had a life? Reb Elyashiv Zt”l R Moshe Zt”l and so many others and so many simple people that we know. Who has a life? the secular world no nachas from themselves no nachas from their children nothing nada you have to be blind not to see what is the correct way. Unfortunately some times we are blinded by Taivos sometimes its stress and other things so you need to make the correct adjustments in life but does not mean to throw away yidishkeit.