sorry but i agree with the rebbitzen. if a person keeps something a secret in general then he/she feels guilty and thinks that its their fault this happened and does not even have any bitachon that hashem will help out . it says “imo anochi batzara” that hashem is with a person all the time especially when facing a tzarah but if you keep it a secret then you dont take HIM in to account. is it your fault that hashem gave you diabetes? no of course not remember HE is in charge and everything comes from HIM so…. why keep it a secret its like your embarressed that hashem decided that you have to have this test. i understand that you dont have to shout it from the rooftops ut its okay to let people know. i make shidduchim and its okay .
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