cofeefan, about the dating issue i spoke to my rebbi about it and he advised me that at date three or four depending on how things are going. To tell you the truth i was a little nervous about it however i said to myself that the right one will be the one who will accept me as is(now she is managing three cases!). to tell you the truth not one girl who i had told said no because of the D. so dont worry.
allsgr8 at one point we offered Dr. k to take care of our two year old for the day. try getting a toddler to eat a specific amount of carbs every day and it should be the SAME FOOD EVERY DAY at the same time of day. (of course she declined!)