reb- theres no reason to feel bad!! i only very recently started to fast on tisha baav. i figured id try and if i cant i wont and i was able to (thats with staying in bed most of the day..) but u said it right on the dot..”it just is not our mitzva to fast… ” its our mitzva to take care of ourselves! it says in the Torah “Vnishmartem es Nafshosechem” we need to take care of ourselves!!!!
tralala- AMAZING!!! congradulations!!! im sure it was so hard and you should be soooo proud 😉 😉 😉 😉