WIY, are you a man? What’s your reaction? The fact is that noticing that a woman is attractive isn’t assur. otherwise Beis Yaakov meidlach wouldn’t make an effort to look attractive, get dressed up and made up, for shidduch dates. “Evil thoughts” are assur. Most men, Jew and Gentile, don’t entertain such thoughts. Unless you are a man and actually have such thoughts, what you were taught is nonsense.
