GAW, you are wrong (again). It is assur for a woman to have inappropriate thoughts about a man to whom she is an ervah, kol she’ken acting out chas ve’sholom. Feeling attracted is also a problem — see Rashi in the last perek of Kiddushin about the issur of sheilas sholom.
Redleg, certain things might not be explicitly proscribed, but are nevertheless not good.