I’d rather be someone sure of him/her self. What does brains add. What do ‘a million’ friends add.
Agreed. Being able to utilize/maximize our unique abilities Hashem has created us with, is really the right and biggest blessing. We are each unique in our own way.
Billions of people on the world. Yet, no two look exactly alike. So too, says the Gemora, do no two people think alike. I’d understand that, that no two people have exactly the same abilities either.