Apart – except for the tall Nebuch woman, who needs 4 1/2 inches and every time she gets up, she is not Tzanuah. 🙂
I have no problem with the “Kabbalah” people. They are not claiming that they understand, and were not taught. There certainly is a derech in Klal Yisroel for accepting that “this is what Bubby did”.
I never liked the “Bas Melech” argument. It certainly doesn’t hold water in our times, when the wives are going out to work (so the husbands can stay in Kollel). Once again here, in certain communities there is room for it.