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    Little Froggie
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    Wow. Wouldn’t have imagined I’d be writing this.. some time ago…

    But it’s time to forgive and move a step forward.. I hereby forgive EVERYONE (like in ‘EVERYONE’) whether unintentional or intentional, any pain, anguish, tzaar, distress, suffering, heartache or headache. Anything done here in the CR or anything out in the real world. Except for any monetary claims (how I wish!) EVEN if said individual intends to do it again. (WOW – I just said it) I mean it – with my full heart.

    I full-heartedly let it go. WHEW!!!!

    ??? ?????? ??? – ??? ???? ??? ??? ?????

    (Ribono Shel Olam, please do likewise)

    ??? ????? ???? to ALL!! A gut, zees, gebentsht yahr!!

    #1186335

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Little Froggie – I am most impressed! I can only hope to someday reach your madreigah.

    #1186336

    Little Froggie
    Participant

    Thank you, LuL.

    No madreigos here. If you only new the other ‘baggage’ I had… It’s a mere attempt at trying any way to tip those heavenly scales…

    #1186337

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    I think it’s a really high level to forgive people who aren’t sorry and intend to do it again!! I’m totally not holding by that. I always have lots of kavana when I say those words in the Tefilas Zaka.

    #1186338

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    or maybe I’m just on a very low level…

    #1186339

    Chortkov
    Participant

    The ?????? ??”? in Kiddushin writes that if somebody is verbally ???? a friend for publicly embarrasing him, and in his heart he still has resentment and isn’t moichel, the mechila works, because ????? ???? ???? ?????.

    So even if you’re not on the madreiga, just say it. Moichel. It works.

    #1186340

    Little Froggie
    Participant

    I did. And I said ?????? ?? ???? ?? ???? ??? ?????. (It’s not everyone’s fault I’m such a sensitive sourpuss)

    Then I begged HaShem to do the same. Maybe, just maybe….???? ???? ???? ????

    #1186341

    thebabbler
    Member

    I find I can forgive anyone whose actions I am not currently suffering from. Even if they never asked to be forgiven. But how do you forgive those whose actions still affect you or your children?

    #1186342

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Little Froggie – except that in your case, I am sure you really were sorry and did apologize to Hashem.

    In any case, it is a tremendous zchus.

    #1186343

    thebabbler
    Member

    I must clarify: I have forgiven, to the best of my ability, those whose actions from years ago still affect me or my kids today. What is difficult is forgiving those whose CURRENT ACTIONS, OR CURRENT INACTION affect us significantly. Yes, they are messengers from Hashem, but that does not make them loveable:)

    #1186344

    Little Froggie
    Participant

    LuL, Thank you.

    Eclipse (I can’t get myself to call you by your new name, perhaps you can still change it to your famed original one):

    I know. (most of us oldies here do too!!) And HaShem certainly does. He doesn’t expect you to do so in the least. ??? ???”? ?? ??????? ?? ???????, something that’s not possible is not demanded. ???? ?? ??? ????? – that’s what we’re made of, and that’s what causes our feelings, emotions, moods. Someone under duress is in an entirely different picture.

    Hope life takes a good, great, fantastic, favorable turn for you this year, if it hasn’t already!

    Like we say: “a good acquittal” (kvital)

    #1186346

    thebabbler
    Member

    thank you so much

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