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  • #615194

    Books, etc. DaasYochid, I’m looking at you.

    #1148769
    HaLeiVi
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    We’ll, according to Rav in Chulin 95b…

    #1148770
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    All foul language is bad. Some is assur, I guess it depends on which type.

    #1148771
    Joseph
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    Nivel peh?

    #1148772
    TheGoq
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    #1148773
    akuperma
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    We eat chickens and turkeys all the time, and they only use fowl language.

    #1148774
    Jewish Thinker
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    All foul language is bad. Some is assur, I guess it depends on which type.

    Do you mind elaborating?

    #1148775
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Merely crude language may not be assur, but nivul peh, where a certain subject is discussed gratuitously, is assur.

    #1148776
    Jewish Thinker
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    Saying curse words is assur. <There is more to the sugya than that so don’t just rely on what I said>

    But as you said, I don’t think that there is any formal prohibition on hearing or reading curse words.

    Inappropriate subjects are also assur to talk about, I believe, but I don’t know if there is a 100% formal prohibition to listen to such things. Can you cite me a source, besides Shulchan Aruch 307:16?

    #1148777
    Letakein Girl
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    DY, does that hold true for both males and females?

    #1148778
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Why besides ?”?, ?”??

    #1148779
    Jewish Thinker
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    Letakein Girl- Why do you have a hava imana there is a difference?

    #1148780
    Jewish Thinker
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    DaasYochid- Why do you burden yourself with writing the hebrew mareh mokomos? Can you type in hebrew?

    #1148781
    Jewish Thinker
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    We eat chickens and turkeys all the time, and they only use fowl language.

    Do you eat fish?

    #1148782
    Letakein Girl
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    JT,

    I thought there might be a difference because when males discuss a certain topic, there can be physical consequences that are actual aveiros, whereas females won’t have that reaction.

    #1148783
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    LG, it’s true that one of the issurim involved only applies to men, but it’s still prohibited for women.

    JT, it’s not so difficult to type a few letters in Hebrew. BTW, it’s also mentioned in ??”? ?”?.

    #1148784
    screwdriverdelight
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    JT, do you have a m.m. that’s it’s forbidden to use curse words?

    #1148785
    Jewish Thinker
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    LG, it’s true that one of the issurim involved only applies to men, but it’s still prohibited for women.

    IM EH 1:69

    Vlo Sussro applies to woman.

    #1148786
    Joseph
    Participant

    Has anyone yet clearly explained the difference between nivel peh and curse words?

    #1148787

    See Rambam on Avos Perek 1 mishna 16 ??”?, ????? ???? ??? ????? ??? ???? ???????? ????, ???? ???? ??? ????? ???????? ??????? ???????? ???? ?????? ????? ????? ?? ???? ??? ????? ?? ????? ??? ????? ???.

    Also see the Sefer Nidchey Yisrael by the Chofetz Chaim chapter 20 towards the end where he calls it a ???? and a ??? and if you use ???? ?? any ???? ????? you speak later (including ?????? ????? ?????) will all go to destruction.

    #1148788
    Letakein Girl
    Participant

    Thanks, DY.

    #1148789

    Has anyone yet clearly explained the difference between nivel peh and curse words?

    I can try: Nivul peh is described in Chapter 11 of Mesilas Yeshorim.

    Anything else is, I assume, not nivul peh. Another concept that may prove useful is lashon n’kiyah. Can someone provide the location of the story of the Kohen who described the size of his portion of lechem haponim as

    “the tail of a sheretz ?”

    #1148790
    apushatayid
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    It is hard to know what op is asking, but ut dhould be obvious tgat onw can discuss a prohibited topic using refined speech, and can completely foul an innocent statement by cussing like a sailor

    #1148791
    Letakein Girl
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    And thanks JT! Your reply wasn’t posted yet when I thanked DY.

    #1148792
    blubluh
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    How does a word get classified as proper or improper (foul) speech in the first place?

    Often, terms that refer to parts of the body or bodily functions that people are uncomfortable discussing in public are classified as improper except in very limited situations and audiences (like doctors, etc).

    Insults, however, can be composed of even the most acceptable words.

    Technically speaking, “curse” words only describe those expressions designed to put a “hex” on another person and have nothing to do with foul language.

    #1148793
    Joseph
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    You have a. nivel peh, b. curses, c. foul language and d. crude language. Some are assur and some are muttar. Yet no one has clearly outlined which is assur and which isn’t or even explained the definition of each and the differences between them.

    #1148794
    Jewish Thinker
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    JT, it’s not so difficult to type a few letters in Hebrew.

    You have a hebrew keyboard?

    #1148795
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    On my computer keyboard, I have Hebrew stickers. On my Android device, I use Google keyboard with Hebrew turned on.

    #1148796
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Most keyboards can be used for Hebrew.

    #1148797
    Jewish Thinker
    Participant

    Most keyboards can be used for Hebrew.

    I know that, but not everybody has the Hebrew stickers so you don’t know which English letter corresponds to Hebrew.

    #1148798
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Don’t you have an on-screen keyboard?

    #1148799
    Jewish Thinker
    Participant

    I’m not a big fan of them.

    #1148800
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Neither am I but sometimes it’s the best option.

    #1148801

    There’s also the Branah option. Whether the mods allow the link or

    not, you should be able to Google it. It’s good for small amounts.

    #1148802

    branah.com/hebrew

    #1148807
    Patur Aval Assur
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    If you want to bring ??? ????? into this, I might sooner say that appropriate books are assur. The Sefer Hachinuch (387) writes:

    ??? ?? ???? ?? ??? ????? ????? ???? ???? ??? ????? ????? ???? ???? ???? ??? ???? ?????? ??????? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ??? ??? ?????? ????, ????? ??? ???? ??? ?????? ???? ????? ?????? ?????? ????? ?? ?????? ???? ???????? ?? ?? ???? ???? ???? ?? ???? ?? ??? ?? ???? ??? ?? ???? ??? ??????

    In other words (the derasha of ???? ????? ?? ????? ????? ?????? ?? ???? notwithstanding), ??? ????? is not specifically referring to “inappropriate” things; it is referring to any (excessive) pursuit of physical pleasures. The Rambam in Sefer Hamitzvos (47) similarly writes:

    ????? ???? ???? ????? ?? ????? ????? ????? ????? ??? ?? ???? ?? ???? ???’ ????? ?????? ?? ???? ????? ????? ????? ????? ????? ???? ?? ?? ?? ??? ???? ????? ???? ???? ???? ??? ?????? ??????? ?????? ?????? ???

    Also, according to R’ Moshe the issur is specifically ??? ????? ????? ???? ????.

    It is perhaps notable that the Pele Yoetz, in the section on nivul peh, speaks severely about speaking and listening to nivul peh but makes no mention of reading it.

    #1148808
    Jewish Thinker
    Participant

    The gemara in Brachos 12B learns out that ??? ????? is hirhuri avierah.

    #1148809
    Patur Aval Assur
    Participant

    I preempted that with my parenthetical.

    #1148810
    Jewish Thinker
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    ???? ????? is not ????.

    #1148811
    Patur Aval Assur
    Participant

    The Sifri and the Yalkut Shimoni have the girsa as ????. But regardless of whether the derasha is referring to ???? or ?????? ????? or both, my point was that according to the Rambam and the Sefer Hachinuch it is not limited to those categories; it applies to all pursuit of gashmius.

    #1148812
    Jewish Thinker
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    I think you missed my point. ???? ????? is ???? ????? ?? ?????” .?????”

    #1148813
    Patur Aval Assur
    Participant

    Where did I indicate anything to the contrary?

    #1148814
    Jewish Thinker
    Participant

    My mistake. ???? ?????, not “????”, another mistake I made.

    #1148815

    JT, do you have a m.m. that’s it’s forbidden to use curse words?

    #1148816

    It is perhaps notable that the Pele Yoetz, in the section on nivul peh, speaks severely about speaking and listening to nivul peh but makes no mention of reading it.

    The Pele Yoetz lived in Bulgaria when it was part of the

    Ottoman Empire, which had very low literacy rates. It seems

    likely that the issue would never have come up.

    #1148817
    Joseph
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    Comlink: Jewish men have generally always had high literacy rates even when living in areas where the local gentile population were mostly illiterate.

    #1148818
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Yes, but that type of material may not have been published.

    #1148819

    Thank you, DaasYochid. 🙂 That is exactly what I meant.

    #1148820
    Joseph
    Participant

    DY makes a very good point. But it certainly is a different point than the one Comlink made that I addressed.

    #1148821

    (Perhaps my last post wasn’t approved when you wrote yours?)

    What I meant was that the non-existence of a literate lower

    class among non-Jews would mean that such “literature” would

    not have an audience, and therefore would not be published,

    not that the Pele Yoetz’s audience was illiterate.

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